Ways to cultivate your purpose in life
Cultivating your sense of purpose in life can be a deeply rewarding and fulfilling journey. Finding and nurturing your purpose can provide a sense of direction, motivation, and a greater sense of satisfaction in your daily life.
Do you know that according to one survey, only 10 percent of people know what their purpose in life is and only 5 percent follow what their life purpose is? The question is, why do most people find it hard to find their life purpose?
Any guesses?
Well, it’s very simple, you’d surely be rolling your eyes reading the answer…
BECAUSE THEY DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START!

Crazy, isn’t it? If you’re interested in knowing more about how you can change the circumstances you have in your life or perhaps, you’re tired already of your current life and want to see if you could find your purpose and life the life you want, then the list below is for you.
While there are a lot of ways to do it, here are the top 5 on my list that I personally think could help you:
- Self-Reflection: This is your compass on the journey to finding your purpose. Take the time to delve deep into your inner world. What are your true passions? What activities ignite your enthusiasm and make you feel most alive? What values and beliefs define you? Self-reflection involves introspection and mindfulness, whether through journaling, meditation, or simply quiet contemplation. By understanding your innermost desires, strengths, and values, you’ll start to unveil the path that aligns with your true purpose.
- Set Goals: Goals are the milestones that lead you toward your purpose. They provide direction and motivation in your life’s journey. Begin by setting clear, achievable goals, both short-term and long-term. These goals should be in harmony with your passions and values. As you work towards them, you’ll gain a sense of fulfillment, accomplishment, and purpose. Remember, goals are not set in stone; they can evolve as you discover more about yourself and your purpose.
- Volunteer and Give Back: There’s immense power in giving back to others and the community. Volunteering is a tangible way to connect with causes that resonate deeply with you. It offers a profound sense of purpose by making a positive impact on the lives of others. Whether you’re volunteering your time, skills, or resources, the act of giving back not only benefits those in need but also helps you discover the joy and fulfillment that comes from contributing to something larger than yourself.
- Connect with Like-Minded People: Surround yourself with individuals who share your interests and values. These connections are vital sources of inspiration and support on your journey. Like-minded people understand your aspirations because they’re walking similar paths. Through shared experiences and insights, you’ll uncover new perspectives and gain clarity on your purpose. These connections can be found in various communities, both online and offline, where individuals with similar passions and values come together to support and encourage one another.
- Embrace Challenges: Challenges are not roadblocks but stepping stones to your purpose. They test your mettle, push you beyond your comfort zone, and reveal your true potential. Embracing challenges means viewing them as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. As you navigate and overcome obstacles, you’ll uncover hidden strengths, resilience, and a deeper understanding of what truly drives you. These revelations serve as guiding lights on your journey toward a life filled with profound meaning and purpose.
Remember that finding your purpose is a personal and ongoing process. It may evolve over time as you grow and change. Be open to new experiences and continue to explore what brings you joy and fulfillment in life.
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’
hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla.
Right now, my only goal in life is to raise my two girls to be good human beings and their healthy and happy upbringing. Of course, my spiritual side is there but would be able to concentrate more once my girls grow up.
This is so practical and easy to follow. I feel it too. It is very important to have a purpose in life be it anything for self or for others but a life without purpose is very depressing. Like how you have jotted the main points which can help someone understand and attain their purpose.
I am 59 and I am struggling to find a purpose in my life.I have done various things but now it as if I am at a roadblock. I am seeking a path but not finding it. I will not give up until I find it though.
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Yes, indeed. It sounds so easy and yet is the toughest. And that’s the reason I guess only 5% of people are lucky enough to have found out and following their purpose.
Sometimes it takes us years to find a purpose in life. The idea is to find what makes us happy but also makes our soul happy. Finding like-minded people who support us is also very important.
That is so very true, Jeannine. A lot many don’t know where to start and whom to ask. Thanks for sharing some practical easy-to-follow tips that can help guide. I hope your post connects to people who are searching for a life goal.
Sorry Jeannine, there is a typo on my comment… looks like I chose Anjali instead of your name from the predictive text. Pls edit it, cuz I can’t
Lol Anjali, I guess I fall into the 90% category cuz I don’t know what my purpose in life is. Well, to be honest, so far I am ok doing a bit of everything but there are times when I get into the ‘i haven’t done anything in life mode.’
I can relate to the importance of connecting with like minded people… this one makes a huuuuuge difference and can be a game changer.
This is a very helpful post when u are lost in life, unclear dunno what to do, like a pause is happening in life. Very clear and understandable pointers.
Your five steps for finding one’s purpose are practical and actionable. Your explanations are clear and relatable, making it easy to understand how to implement these steps in their lives.
I feel out of all this, finding people with similar taste is the most difficult. We keep on walking on our path and meeting some for a short while and some for a longer period, but ultimately goal is where we go. However, the more we are driven, the more strength we get. It’s also a happier path.
This post really resonates with me. Discovering our life’s purpose is such a meaningful journey, and I agree that it can be challenging for many. I was clueless about my life purpose, and starting my blog gave me the purpose I was seeking. I think the idea of self-reflection is crucial – understanding our passions and what truly matters to us is a great starting point. Setting achievable goals that align with those passions makes a lot of sense. And I’ve found that connecting with like-minded people has been incredibly inspiring in my journey. Thanks for sharing these valuable insights.
It is really important to find out the goal in our life. Your tips are helpful for many who are lost in the world. If you have goal in your life your life becomes most beautiful.
We all have some or other purpose in life but most of us fail to identify it at right time and right way. It is where the biggest mistake we do in life. If we are clear about the purpose of our life, life will appear more meaningful, happy and celebrated one. I really like the points that you have mentioned which can help in realizing and cultivating the purpose of our lives. Thanks a ton for enlighten us with such thoughtful and helpful post.
I was just like what you mentioned initially I was clueless about my purpose at one point but with self-reflection, and self-awareness with the help of mindful living I could regain clarity in my vision. You post is quite educative and life-changing.