The beauty of Marriage

Are you okay?

A simple sentence that can keep a marriage happy, going and remain loving. Don’t get me wrong though, this simple phrase shouldn’t just be asked to your partner/by your partner but needs to be answered with sincerity and truth.

Having been married for almost 9 years now, I’ve learned a lot on how to deal with the tweaks of my hubby and I sure know he did too! Marriage is very complex. Emotions such as having someone to love and be loved by someone is great but when mixed with the reality that you need to keep up with another person’s imperfections??? I’m sure all of us would think twice.

The reality is, all of us wish and pray to be find someone who fits perfectly an imaginary person that couldn’t exist because that person is a mirror of yourself. No matter how people say he/she is the perfect person I’ve prayed and hope to be with, I simply won’t agree. For sure there’s that snoring that you hated for the first few years of marriage but simply learned to live with it. Or that annoying mood swings that you don’t know any person can keep up with yet you learned overtime how to act on it without making that person so dear to you more upset.

Once you’ve learned to accept those things, that’s the time you’ll know can say that the person you’ve fully accepted and is the perfect person you want to live with the rest of your life.

A lot of couples though get too complaisant knowing their partner well enough that they forget that their other half is a human. It only means that despite being with them all those years, let’s just say, you “still” don’t know them. That’s why it’s important to always check with one another.

A simple phrase such as “Are you okay?” can mean a lot. What being together all those years helps though is being able to reply to that question with the unfiltered truth. Whether you got disappointed with a petty thing your other half didn’t noticed upset you or you’re all good and just in a mood of talking that much that day, you’re free to blurt out without thinking twice that you might upset your listener because you know he/she will accept you no matter what.

And that’s the beauty of marriage.

When was the last time you checked with your other half, “Are you okay?”

Let me know in the comments below if you find this helpful and meaningful.

12 thoughts on “The beauty of Marriage

  1. This is so well written. Love how well executed this article is. The lines are absolutely true and tells a lot about marriage.

  2. Couldnt agree more.. Simple words of care and affection, means alot. A simple Are You Ok, definitely make a big difference. Loved reading your post… beautifully penned

  3. I must say as I’m very emotional and romantic person I do keep asking my husband n love ones…. Are u ok??? I loved the article it was really a good read and I loved every word of it!

  4. ” Are u okay” , these are simple words but can be so soothing if the partner says this. I am going to check with my husband today only:)

  5. Beauty of marriage is the social standing, stability and respect it provides to two individuals that forms the basis of a healthy and happy family and society.

  6. Well written and indeed a beautiful article. Not married yet, but I completely agree with the impact all these simple conversations can have on the people around us and our relationship with them.

  7. Yeah this is right. The beauty of marriage about a simple sentence , can keep a marriage happy, going and remain loving, relationship. Well writing and very nice information. Everyone will understand it. Thanks for this.

  8. You are right, simple words can make a big difference in marriage. After some initial years, partners start taking their better half for granted. We hardly say those words which might have been the first few words which made our relationship bloom and grow.

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